I started my working career as an Advertising Executive after my M.Sc in Political Economy from the University of Lagos, Nigeria in 1982. After that I joined the Guardian newspaper at inception in 1983 as Senior Reporter and the very first National Assembly Correspondent. While at The Guardian, I 'reported' both the Upper (Senate) and Lower (House of Representatives) Houses of Parliament. I wrote a weekly Column, 'The Legislature', which became very popular and authoritative. I met my husband, Femi Kusa, who was then the News Editor, in The Guardian newsroom.
I needed flexi-time to care for my young children after marriage. I chose to start a career as an academic in Lagos State University (LASU). I lectured there for about 20 years, where I rose to become Head of Department of Political Science and the first Director of the Centre for Refugee & Conflict Studies. In fact I set up the Centre in 1997. Then the Sierra-Leoneans and other nationals were harboured by Nigeria in Oru camp, Ogun state. The leader in me made me plant lemon grass in the camp to alleviate the incidents of malaria. Condoms were also provided to the refugees. Within a year, my leadership initiatives led to a drastic decrease in the number of unwanted pregnancies/HIV/STD/Malaria among refugees.
From LASU, I was appointed the first Director of the Department of External Conflict Prevention & Resolution, Institute for Peace & Conflict Resolution (IPCR), The Presidency, Abuja. There, as a leader, I formulated the project, 'Post-Conflict Peace-Building in Africa' which was the very first project approved for IPCR by the National Assembly! All other departments had to latch on to my project in order to get busy and make my project relevant in some way to their department. Another first by me!
I retired in 2010, and instead of sitting pretty and living the idle life of the typical retiree, I set up a viable Consultancy: 'Dayo Oluyemi-Kusa & Associates', where along with my dynamic team we have been involved in conflict transformation in the Niger Delta & North-East Nigeria at various times. In retirement, I am a non-resident Senior Fellow of Centre for Democracy & Development (CDD) - a think tank for social/political engagement. It was after retirement that I concluded my Ph.D in Peace Studies on line. The title of my thesis is: 'Mediation: A viable method of conflict transformation in Nigeria'.
My audience was indeed fascinated by my leadership odyssey. I have shown that you can be a career woman and also be a successful wife and mother. My marriage to Femi Kusa, a veteran journalist/herbal medicine practitioner is 34 years young and still counting. Our three adult sons have turned out very well. My first son, Tope Kusa is a medical doctor (MBBS) with an MPH degree from Harvard University. He is a Clinical Research Coordinator at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston. My second son, Seun Kayode Kusa, a law graduate, is now a content provider for start-ups/herbal medicine enthusiast/Chartered Mediator & Conciliator. He is a law graduate of the University of Abuja, where I delivered the lecture. My last son, Ayokunnu Kusa, is a graduate of the Federal University of Agriculture, Abeokuta (Animal Breeding & Genetics - Upper 2nd, GPA 4.09). Ayo is an Agro-preneur who operates within the agricultural value chain via innovation.
*It is not necessarily what you study in the University that would eventually put food on your table. I read Political Science, but ended up with Peace/Conflict Transformation & Mediation.
*Seize every opportunity at your disposal, never take anything for granted. I attended all the courses as a Director in the Presidency. Some of the papers I presented at conferences became useful for my Ph.D
*For female mentees: It is quite possible to be a career woman and also a successful wife/mother. I am a living example. My husband, Femi Kusa, has been very supportive.
*You can pick up leadership qualities in the most unlikely places, even while watching children play.
*Always pay attention to detail.
*Serve your superiors diligently, just like you would like your subordinates to relate to you when you become a leader.
*The fact that I was the first Director of the Centre for Refugee & Conflict Studies stood me in good stead to become a Director in the Institute for Peace & Conflict Resolution, The Presidency. Moral of this: Do your very best in every position you find yourself, it may be a stepping stone to bigger things!
It was indeed pleasant to share my leadership experience with the students. I also met the amazing Common Purpose GLE 'crew' that came to Abuja:
*Adeola Ogunkolade, Founder, African Fashion Development & Empowerment Centre (AFDEC)
How can I forget Ridhima Tomar, the first person to contact me from Common Purpose via Linkedin. Pity Ridhima could not be with us in Abuja due to logistics issues. However, she stayed constantly in touch via email throughout. It was an exciting time mentoring the younger ones as regards my leadership experience! Kudos to the Common Purpose GLE team. Bravo!
*IQ in leadership https://hbr.org/2004/01/what-makes-a-leader...
*Mentoring others will actually make you less stressed at work thriveglobal.com/stories/mentorship-stress-reduction-purpose-at-work/
*Recovering from trauma - into our own truth https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/recovering-from-trauma.../
*How to be an expert: What does it really take to master your trade? by Prof.Roger Kneebone newscientist.com
*In a world of noise, learning to switch off your mind is a super power entrepreneur.com
*4 ways to stop attracting people who can't pay for your services entrepreneur.com
*How to be happy when you spend time alone thriveglobal.com/stories/how-to-enjoy-alone-time-solitude-prevent-sadness-negativity-lonely/
*A successful CEO does 3 things: Culture/People/Numbers entrepreneur.com
*Never say 'I have no choice' ever again: 5 choices you always have when you find yourself stuck entrepreneur.com
*Why some people get burned out & others don't https://hbr.org/2016/why-some-people-get-burned-out.../
*Stop perfectionism from slowing you down thriveglobal.com
*Advantages & disadvantages of Online learning elearningindustry.com
*How to reduce financial stress & build sustainable spending habits thriveglobal.com
*Struggling with Impostor Syndrome? Helpful tips thriveglobal.com
*3 lies they tell you in school that hurt you in business entrepreneur.com
*Dealing with uncertainty in the second half of life careerpivot.com https://bit.ly/2Jy3MNI
*What is Bitcoin? A simple investing explainer entrepreneur.com
*How to have conversations with people who hate you http://t.ted.com/K1uMLGl
*'Personality Intelligence': What does it mean? entrepreneur.com
*Public Speaking nightmare: How to shut down bullies & hecklers entrepreneur.com
*How to stop worrying about what other people think of you hbr.org/2019/05/how-to-stop-worrying-about-what-people-think-of-you/
*Pressure doesn't have to turn into stress: 4 steps to stop it hbr.org
*Quality sleep can transform your mood & make you more empathic https://bit.ly/3eSPYNc thriveglobal.com/stories/stress-quality-sleep-improves-mood-kindness-empathy-compassion-cov/
*How to build a great relationship with a mentor hbr.org/2020/01/how-to-build-great-relationship-mentor/
*10 sites for Free Online Education:
1) Coursera - https://www.coursera.org
2) edX - https://www.edx.org/
3) Khan Academy - https://www.khanacademy.org
4) Udemy - https://www.udemy.com/courses/free/
5) iTunes U Free Courses - https://www.open.edu/itunes/
6) MIT Open Course Ware - https://ocw.mit.edu/index.htm
7) Stanford Online https://online.stanford.edu/free-courses
8) Codecademy - https://www.codecademy.com/
9) Open Culture Online Courses - http://www.openculture.com/freeonlinecourses
10) Alison - https://alison.com/
*Why you should create a 'Shadow Board' for younger employees https://trib.al/Kt1zSRS
*Curbing 'Implicit Bias': What works & what doesn't https://www.discoverymagazine.com/mind/curbing-implicit-bias-what-works-what-doesnt/
*Skills recruiters look for in Online Workers linkedin.com/feed/news/the-wfh-skills-recruiters-look-for-4224649
*Learning should be accessible to all https://learnathome.ng/login/signup.php
*5 hidden causes of stress & anxiety thriveglobal.com/stories/hidden-causes-anxiety/
*Starting afresh, with the end in mind: CoV has urged us to rethink our relationships and truly savour our time thriveglobal.com/stories/starting-afresh-with-end-in-mind/
*Good leadership is an act of kindness https;//hbswk.hbs.edu/item/good-leadership-an-act-of-kindness/
*10 surprising health care rituals to try when you feel stressed/anxious thriveglobal.com/stories/unexpected-self-care-in-a-pandemic/
*3 traits to build EI richdad.com
*The connection between empathy towards others and ethics https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/empathy-and-relationships/201701/the-connection-between-empathy-towards-others-and-ethics/
*Temperament causes the downfall of another CEO https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/temperament-causes-downfall-of-ceo/
*How to keep work stress from killing you, literally forbes.com/sites/bryanrobinson/2020/11/27/how-to-prevent-work-stress-from-killing-you-literally/
*Social Intelligence strategies for for start-ups entrepreneurs.com/article/357851...
*Productivity tools & Apps to help you achieve more by Oladayo Idowu
-10 Apps that solve problems for free https://www.facebook.com/groups/opennetwork/permalink/1094844.../
-12 Websites that solve problems for free https://www.facebook.com/groups/opennetwork/permalink/1099512
Productivity Tools:
1) Momentum: Browser extensionthat keeps you focused on your work.
2) Accompany: Your PA
3) G Board: Mobile keyboard from Google. Good alternative to switch key. Google search integrated into keyboard.
4) Stay Focused: Free Chrome extension that blocks sites or Apps that consume time.
5) Escape 2: Tracks how often you are distracted.
6) Just Press Record: App that helps record my voice just by one tap.
7) Panda: Go to source for professional Designers.
8) Asane: Web & Mobile App that puts your team's communication & PM in one place.
9) Plan: Calendar & task management App for your desktop.
10) Google Drive: Organise & share any files. Offers Cloud storage.
11) Newton: Puts all your email accounts together.
12) Spark: Pops emails on top of list.
13) Freedom: Productivity App that blocks the sites that waste your time.
*Essentials of EI by Daniel Goleman https://marketplace.geteverwise.com/products/daniel-goleman/
*'Mask of perfection: A Personal Story of Breakdown & Recovery by Karen Banks www.karenbanks.com
*Elevator speech & video meeting tips: A 'Disclaimer' increases your credibility and attention to your message https://lnked.in/eiW-7nZ
*Why it's important to brag about yourself to yourself www.margogeller.com/2020/09/why-its-important-to-brag-about-yourself-to-yourself/
*Making good decisions through positive thinking - John Kraus https://youtu.be/TiI_knh6BZg
*The key to steering clear of burnout https://www.fastcompany.com/90550785/how-to-intentionally-build-break-times-into-your-workday/
*Community helps re-build elderly woman'shouse edition.cnn.com/2020/04/24/us/iyw-community-helps-rebuild-elderly-womans-house/
*10 qualities of bad leadership to avoid idscreate.com/2020/09/25/ten-qualities-bad-leadership-o-avoid/
*Tips to develop a growth mindset in kids: Make then successful, strong & resilient thriveglobal.com/stories/tips-develop-growth-mindset-confidence-success-resilience-kids-parents/
*What you experience may not exist: Inside the strange truth of reality newscientist.com
*If you are not outside your comfort zone, you won't learn anything https://trib.al/FAQsqs
*7 growth mindset principles entrepreneur.com/article/355794?fbclid.../
*17 passive income ideas for increasing your cash flow https://www.entrepreneur.com/slideshow/299914/emy/courses/...
*How DNA defines us: What makes us who we are - Nature or Nurture? https://iai.tv/iai-acad
*Quit these unhealthy habits thriveglobal.com/stories/unhealthy-habits-you-need-to-stop.../
*Relive stress in a few seconds thriveglobal.com/stories/relieve-stress-tips-tricks/
*Home Schooling Tips: How to navigate it with less stress thriveglobal.com/stories/homeschooling-tips-for-parents-virtual-learning-kids-strategies/
*Should you consider early retirement in a recession? https;//on.wsj.com/2SGmojN.../
*These 40 Websites will make you smarter, intelligent & rich in just 20 minutes a day https://continentalreporters.com/these-40-websites.../
*Public Speaking: Should you gesture to persuade an audience? https://lnkd.in/g9-WU6p #gestures #publicspeaking #presentations
*The power of Small Wins: Help workers see their own progress hbr.org
*Integrating SDGs into Business Plans bit.ly/3k35Qi1
*What it takes to give a great presentation hbr.org
*Thoughts on birthdays & aging thriveglobal.com/stories-powerful-thoughts-on-birthdays.../
*Tips to prevent work from taking over your weekend thriveglobal.com
*Vacation is important thriveglobal.com
*The silver lining of social distancing: Isolation could provide a big benefit thriveglobal.com
*Your decision-making ability is a superpower Physics can't explain newscientist.com
*Single tasking is the way to go now: Let go of the busy-ness of multi-tasking thriveglobal.com
*Why you should fit a quick nap into your work day thriveglobal.com
*How to upgrade your thinking to avoid traps that make you look stupid newscientist.com/article/mg24132180-100-how-to-upgrade-your-thinking.../
*7 Do's & Don'ts to remember when disagreeing with your spouse beautifulchristianlife.com/blog/7-dos-donts-disagreeing-with-spouse/
*Free tools to create your online courses:
1) Windows Snipping Tools for flexible cropping of images on your computer
2) Screen capture (Google Chrome extension) for capturing & editing a full webpage & creating illustrations. It can also convert your captured page to PDF.
3) Canva App for awesome slide design++
4) Zoom meeting App for screen recording of your course content.
5) Google doc 7 Google form for creating landing pages if you have no website.
*Nation-building roles created by Deepa Iyer medium.com/@dviyer/mapping-our-social-change-roles-in-times-of-crisis-8bbe71a8ab01
-Weavers
-Experimenters
-Front-line Respondents
-Visionaries
-Builders
-Caregivers
-Disruptors
-Healers
-Storytellers
-Guides
*The meaning of 'Self Made' linkedin.com/news/story/idea-of-the-day-the-meaning-of-self-made-4248033/
*I-We-You: Tips for Speakers & Writers https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/i-we-you-tips-speakers-writers-dave-bricker
*How your face shapes your economic chances theatlantic.com/business/archive/2014/08/the-economics-of-your-face/375450/...
*The psychology of why people believe 'Conspiracy Theories' https://lissarankin.com/the-psychology-of-why-people-believe-conspiracy-theories/
*Turkish garbage collectors opened a library with all the books they got from trash cans https;//www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-abrahams/
*5 ways to set healthy boundaries in your life thriveglobal.com/stories/how-to-set-boundaries-avoid-frustration-stress-tips/
*Mindset shift when spending time alone thriveglobal.com
*The Precariat: The new dangerous class by Guy Standing researchgate.net/publications/296485856_Guy_Standing_2011_The_Precariat.../
*The Precariat & Class Struggle - Guy Standing, SOAS, London University, UK https;//journals.openedition.org/rccsar-585.pdf
*The Precariat Dilemma by Guy Standing fabians.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/guy_standing_changing_work.pdf
*Meet the Precariat, the new global class, fueling the rise of populism weforum.org/agenda/2016/11/precariat-global-class-rise-of-populism/
*Why the Precariat is not a 'bogus concept' opendemocracy.net/en/why-precariat-is-not-bogus-concept/
*Why being part of the Precariat is harder for some than others theconversation.com/why-being-part-of-precariat-is-harder-for-some.../
*5 habits of highly intimate people (including Entrepreneurs) entrepreneur.com/article/357308?fbclid.../
*4 myths about finding purpose thriveglobal.com/stories/myths-finding-your-purpose/
*Kamala Harris makes history as 1st female American VP entrepreneur.com
*While the world counts votes, consider counting stars thriveglobal.com/stories/while-world-counting-votes.../
*Types IN people,not types OF people next-element.com
*Book review: How to market a book: Over-perform in crowded market buildbookbuzz.com
*How craving attention makes you less creative http://t.ted.com/pDyn4dU
*3 tips for better Author Blogs buildbookbruce.com/3-tips-better-author-blogs/
*15 ways to command attention during virtual meetings https://bit.ly/3nv8fDB diresta.com/knockoutpresentationsblog/engage-your-audience-during-virtual-meetings-1
*Are you developing skills that won't be automated? https://trib.al/WjXIEx0
*Sacrificing retirement savings to help family members can be a mistake wsj.com
*10 Apps that solve problems for free by Oladayo Idowu:
-Suliminal Lite: Can help you relax, feel good, quit bad habits like smoking & hard drugs. Great tool for assimilation for students.
-Otter: Transcribes voice conversations.It can transcribe MP3 & Videos into text, which can be easily exported to your notepad or MS Word.
-Audible: Entrepreneurs get their ideas from here. Allows you to listen to any book you wish to read without having to focus on reading.
-Bitwarden: Generates random, strong passwords, saves all paswords and enables you access them. Particularly useful when you log into unsafe sites on the Internet. It has a two step authentication & great customer support.
-Mint: Free money manager & financial tracker App. Useful for Start-Ups. Brings together your bank accounts, credit cards, bills & investments so you know where you stand, track your spending & enables you to save while staying on top of your bills.
-Buffer: Enables you schedule your social media posts according to the time when your target audience is active.
-CamScanner: App allows you to scan. It works by using a camera function with the App. The following are the steps: a) Take a piece of paper you want to scan. b) App then recognises the corners of the sheet & outlines it to crop it in a way that makes it look perfect.
-Grammarly: Writing keyboard App that makes sure that everything you type is notonly correct, but also clear and easy to read.
-Todo: Allows you to view your daily task summary & customise alerts based on deadlines.
-AddMusiToBackgrund: Allows you to add a song/beatto your recorded voice, and make it sound better, as if it was done in the studio. Good for 'voice broadcasts'.
*How to take better notes for information retention https://www.inc.com/minda-zetlin/note-taking-better-notes-retention-remembering-information/
*'Editing yourself ' http://bit.ly/2ELGn7x How to get rid of stuff while editing yourself http://bit.ly/2FK2QU2
*Top-rated courses to help improve your social media skills https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/358747.../
1) What is Social? Coursera by NorthWestern (4 weeks)
2) HubSpot Social Media Strategy Certification
3) Google Analytics
4) Hootsuite Social Marketing Course
5) Facebook Blueprint (Fb Certified Digital Marketing Association)
6) Hootsuite Advanced Social Advertising
7) LI Learning - Social Media Marketing Foundations
*15 ways to spot a toxic workplace (environment) before you take the job entrepreneur.com/article/358814.../
*Today's leaders need vulnerability, not bravado https://trib.al/AHPcnUf
*15 career lessons from Elon Musk, etc entrepreneur.com/article/359439.../
*The neuroscience of trust https://trib.al/98EWKJT
*Stop stealing your audience's time: Your presentation shouls be of value https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/stop-stealing-audience-time-lisa-braithwaite/
*3 consequences of when introverted leaders women leaders put on an extro persona https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/3-consequences-introverted-leaders.../
*Velocity of money: The secret to how the rich get richer & the poor get poorer richdad.com/velocity-of-money-robert-kim-blogs/
*5 leadershiplessons from JFK 57 years later https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/5-leadership-lessons-jfk.../
*15 strategies to overcome self-doubt when Impostor Syndrome strikes thriveglobal.com/stories/tips-impostor-syndrome-how-to-overcome-self-doubt-inner-critic/
*5 steps to becoming a genuine authority in your industry entrepreneur.com
*The power of introverts http://t.ted.com/A5pfotK
*'Fitting in' is over-rated entrepreneur.com/article/360263.../
*4 outdated rules every business owner needs to ditch entrepreneur.com
*It's time to admit it: Remote learning is a failure washingtonpost.com
*A High School in Texas opened a grocery store for struggling families, where good deeds are accepted as payment for commodities cnn.com
*Working from home? Get paid to write stories readictnovel.com
*4 ways to re-skill the global workforce bit.ly/2JVWt6l
*Shift your money mindset & watch your fortune grow entrepreneur.com/article/359329?fbclid=
*What businesses will look like in 2030 entrepreneur.com
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*Vulnerability makes a leader strong, not weak entrepreneur.com
*Why tenacity is one of the most critical, but overlooked entrepreneurial skills entrepreneur.com
*You are not really rich if you are not giving back richdad.com/giving-back?feed=robert-kim-blogs.../
*How to build an effective home office entrepreneur.com/article/360245.../
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*75 ideas for business you can launch for cheap or free entrepreneur.com
*Why compassion is a better managerial tactic than toughness entrepreneur.com
*Why the 'self-made entrepreneur' is a myth entrepreneur.com
*'In-person meetings aren't the gold standard anymore: Business travel & office work won't return to normal after Covid-19':- Bill Gates africa.businessinsider.com/tech-insider/
*Join us to read for 21 minutes daily #Read21in21! https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/join-us-read-21-minutes-everyday-2021-read21in21-gretchen-rubin/
*Energy vampires: Assessing your relationships thriveglobal.com/stories/energy-vampires.../
*How to stick to your goals through setbacks & rejection thriveglobal.com/stories/how-to-stick-to-your-goals.../
*Here's what international tests tell us about how to improve education on.forbes.com/6012HTVwM
*How to be friends with someone who works for you hbr.org https://t.co/4XIejrlm1Y?amp=1
*The complete 12-step guide to starting a business entrepreneur.com
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*The science of how to stick to your new year resolutions & truly change your habits edition.cnn.com/2021/01/01/health/new-year-resolutions-wellness/
*5 ways to keep engaged during boring online meetings entrepreneur.com
*Driving the road to (unreasonable) success entrepreneur.com
*How Steve Jobs turned setbacks into success entrepreneur.co
*How Mangers can prevent their teams from burning out hbr.org
*Attracting affluent clients on social media https://www.entrepreneur.com
*How your small business can take down Goliath entrepreneur.com
*5 business survival tips for 2021 entrepreneur.com
*TED Talks for motivation - Adaptation quotient/Fight your inner critic/reframe your failures/replace 'sorry' with 'thank you' thriveglobal.com/stories/ted-talks-meaningful-inspiring/lessons-wisdom/
*Are entrepreneurs narcissists? entrepreneur.com
*Lessons from Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. for Millennials & Gen Z https://goodmenproject.com/features-content/lessons-from-mlk-for-millennials/
*17 inspirational quotes by MLK Jr. https://www.inc.com/.../17-inspirational-quotes-by-mik/
*Honouring Dr. MLK Jr. on our way to the promised land https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/honouring-dr-mlk.../
*100 best websites for writers https://linked.in/dJGPwu
*How to lead in a crisis t.ted.com/Kzou1cn
*Elon Musk's essential tips for aspiring entrepreneurs https://www.gobankingrates.com/money/entrepreneur/elon-musk-tips-for-entrepreneurs/
*25 habits to achieve happiness entrepreneur.com
*The difference between a growing business & a growing brand entrepreneur.com
*Can exercise make you more creative? nytimes.com
*Practical EI for Leaders & Managers https://practicalemotionalintelligence.teachable.com/leaders-managers-ei/
*'Failure is not an option': What Apollo 13 teaches about problem-solving for entrepreneurs entrepreneur.com
*A step-by-step guide to writing a business plan for start-ups businessinsider.com
*When executives mis-speak: The modern boss is a Cheerleader, not a Sergeant-Major economist.com
*How humble leadership really works hbr.org
*5 types of people you need to remove from your life goalcast.com/2020/05/29/fake-friends-toxic-people-avoid-for-better-life/
*Online courses from Google learndigital.withgoogle.com
*8 small ways we can protect the environment on a daily basis thriveglobal.com
*The secret of discovering your creativity by Ethan Hawke (Actor) http://t.ted.com/0DwBth7
*You are more resilient than you give yourself credit for. Don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone hbr.org
*The differencebetween Goals, Strategies, Metrics, OKRs, KPIs & KRIs by Daniel Miessler danielmiessler.com
*How journaling can help you live your best life wsj.com
*Knockout presentations: How to deliver your message with power, punch & pizzazz amazon.com
*How to boost your self-awareness and make better decisions newscientist.com
*5 ways to build a healthy social media relationship thriveglobal.com